There are days where you dont want to talk, but write..

Mainly written in two lingos (Bahasa & English).

Ps. my apologies if there is any spelling or grammatical error.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Experiencing IMAX!

Sunday, July 4th 2010 at 10:00AM : Shrek The Final Chapter.

I was hesitating at first. Should I or should I not watch Shrek 4 in IMAX, since I am having a love-hate relationship with 3D cinemas.

Most of the times I experienced dizziness after the movie session. I remember last time I watched Avatar, which you might all know, the movie was quite long, I had a terrible headache after the movie. It was not caused by the story line, graphics etc. It because I chose to watch it in a 3D cinema not the standard one.

I am actually curious about IMAX, as I have been listening to people's comments about the upsides and downsides of it.

My decision to give it a go was perfectly right! I love the 3D there! HUGE screen, better quality 3D!
It is way better than the local cinemas where I normally go.
Although they have these new cinemas with 3D, but still, it is not the same. Even the atmosphere is different.

Thanks SS! it was such a lovely company for the earliest movie session I have ever had. ☺☺

Looking forward to watching the next movie(s) in IMAX!



Bisous.
LpW

Is that what a girl really wants?

Mellow Hellow!
3:21AM AEST.
But all I could think of is writing.

My best friend shared me her story about a guy who is currently dating another girl. To cut it short, my best friend is so into him. She told him how she feels about him. And the idea of telling him did not turn out to be a great one.

What else could make a good night turns out into a bad night. Except, realising that the person you love does not love you back, or, the person you love has changed into someone you do not want him to be, in this case.

It hurts of course.

I told her to sleep on it, do not think about anything for tonight. Full stop. But bestie, by the time you read this post, you should be smiling widely, knowing the reason behind my command.

The more I heard about someone else's stories, problems, etc. The more I am aware of how stubborn I am, how selfish I am.

Up until this moment of time, I am still expecting someone to be the same person as he was 6 years ago, which is impossible.
I always think, although we cant be together anymore, but, at least what I feel for him has not changed at all, therefore I am hoping him to be at the same stage as I am. But HELLOOOO!! Everybody is changing. And without him telling me, I could smell he is into someone else at the moment. That might be the reason why he has changed orrr, maybe because I told him that I am seeing someone at the moment.

D'OH.

See, how selfishly idiot I am. Deep down in my heart, I am still hoping, thing will go back to where it was 6 years ago.
But, having listened to my bestie's story, made me realised that, I really should stop expecting the impossible thing to happen. Coz, If I dont, I would not be any smarter than a donkey could be. - -"

Just concentrate with my current life. Wish him a happy life. Those are actually better to do.

You, if you read this, I just want you to know that, yes, I am jealous knowing that you are currently with / close with someone else. However, my jealousy would not go any longer than the time you spent to read my post (hopefully) :p

I am wishing you the best. For everything.

As for the girl, whoever she is. Please note, this guy is one of a kind. Do not take him for granted. Really should tell you that you are a lucky one. Must be a special girl chosen by a special guy.

Lastly. I miss talking to you.
I remember I told you about this although you were too hesitate to say anything. You said you were afraid. That is perfectly understandable to me. Actually, I was lying to you that day. I miss everything about you.

Something that is unspoken and will remain unspoken for a while.
Till I see you again.


Bisous.
LpW

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Do Men Need to be Overly Jealous?

"A word of warning: if a woman really wants to cheat, she will. No chastity schemes will keep her from it, so you might as well live your life and let the chips fall where they may."

Yes. I do understand your reasons.
You are truly madly deeply in love with your girlfriend, she's the best you ever had, etc.
Whatever your reasons are. That is fine.

BUT.

The whole thing about relationship is about trusting each other, ok friends.. Or else, it becomes relation-shit. Trust me.

You have read the quote above, haven't you?

That is basically all you need to remember.

Since (most of) guys do not like to read and remember the theory about relationship, so I think if you could at least remember the quote above you will know what to do to the love of your life.

I know how it feels to be head over heels in love, it's beautiful, even more beautiful if you know that the person you love, loves you back.

But please, don't let this love thing makes you blind and drive you mad. You still need to give the person you love some 'spaces' . Yes! Spaces to hang out with her friends, spaces for herself to do things that she loves doing.
A lot of women out there would greatly appreciate that and they will love their partners even more for trusting them and let them do their own things.

Worst come to the worst, if she turns out to be your least expected partner, you don't need to feel like a 'big L'.
Just think that you are not meant to be together. Therefore, start looking for someone who deserves you more than her. Period.

Guys, check this out for your (present / future) reference.

Have a perfect day! x
LpW

ASYIK - a charity event


"Dear lovely friends,

As you may know my musician Uncle Wintolo in Yogyakarta, Indonesia is very sick. He is having dialysis treatments every week as he has failling kidneys (AU$250 per week, until we find a kidney for a transplant, which is super expensive in Java). His three daughters (our cousins) and I have brainstormed with ideas to raise funds.

I have organised a fundraising concert at this nice warehouse in St Peters and have huge support from my artist friends and family. Check out the line up below!

The performers are donating their time and creative energy to put on a very entertaining show. The show will be an explorations of our identity, bringing awareness to what it means to be an Indonesian/Australian through visual arts, film, music and dance.

.......

Also pass this on to your friends! Your support will be greatly appreciated, Thank you!

Love,
Kartini"

ASYIK was successfully organised by Kartini Suharto-Martin and friends. Thumbs up!!
I danced two Indonesian dances; Tari (means Dance in Bahasa) Batik from Solo and Tari Aceh. But could not manage to get any picture in Tari Aceh's costume. 

The (Tari Batik) dancers :


We had so much fun that night! And was so happy when Kartini's Mum announced the money they raised that night. It was approximately A$3,700.00.Such a nigh to remember! 


I hope Uncle Wintolo soul's lifted although he was hospitalised. Get well soon, Uncle!


Bisous.
LpW

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Live High!

Got screwed by a guy or a girl?

Come on! I know you could do something better than just to sit there and cry yourself to sleep! :)

Take a look in the mirror!
You will see someone with a real talent, beautiful, deserves someone better, is in there. YEAH. That is you.

So, why do you even have to think twice? Go out, sign up to various activities out there! Could be Salsa/Painting/Cooking/Karate or..any other class. You name it.

Time will not wait for you to feel better or feel greatly relief. It flies. Unfortunately, you will never get it back once it flies. So, chop chop, stop crying! and start making new plans for your life.

Be grateful for who you are right now, coz many people out there are much more unfortunate than you are.
Have you read todays news? Those children who are living under the poverty line, those girls who got raped by their own father and many more terrible things (which I believe you would regret for feeling doom & gloom just because someone cheated on you and such).

I wish you the best.

Have a perfect day! :)

Bisous,
LpW