There are days where you dont want to talk, but write..

Mainly written in two lingos (Bahasa & English).

Ps. my apologies if there is any spelling or grammatical error.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Do Men Need to be Overly Jealous?

"A word of warning: if a woman really wants to cheat, she will. No chastity schemes will keep her from it, so you might as well live your life and let the chips fall where they may."

Yes. I do understand your reasons.
You are truly madly deeply in love with your girlfriend, she's the best you ever had, etc.
Whatever your reasons are. That is fine.

BUT.

The whole thing about relationship is about trusting each other, ok friends.. Or else, it becomes relation-shit. Trust me.

You have read the quote above, haven't you?

That is basically all you need to remember.

Since (most of) guys do not like to read and remember the theory about relationship, so I think if you could at least remember the quote above you will know what to do to the love of your life.

I know how it feels to be head over heels in love, it's beautiful, even more beautiful if you know that the person you love, loves you back.

But please, don't let this love thing makes you blind and drive you mad. You still need to give the person you love some 'spaces' . Yes! Spaces to hang out with her friends, spaces for herself to do things that she loves doing.
A lot of women out there would greatly appreciate that and they will love their partners even more for trusting them and let them do their own things.

Worst come to the worst, if she turns out to be your least expected partner, you don't need to feel like a 'big L'.
Just think that you are not meant to be together. Therefore, start looking for someone who deserves you more than her. Period.

Guys, check this out for your (present / future) reference.

Have a perfect day! x
LpW

ASYIK - a charity event


"Dear lovely friends,

As you may know my musician Uncle Wintolo in Yogyakarta, Indonesia is very sick. He is having dialysis treatments every week as he has failling kidneys (AU$250 per week, until we find a kidney for a transplant, which is super expensive in Java). His three daughters (our cousins) and I have brainstormed with ideas to raise funds.

I have organised a fundraising concert at this nice warehouse in St Peters and have huge support from my artist friends and family. Check out the line up below!

The performers are donating their time and creative energy to put on a very entertaining show. The show will be an explorations of our identity, bringing awareness to what it means to be an Indonesian/Australian through visual arts, film, music and dance.

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Also pass this on to your friends! Your support will be greatly appreciated, Thank you!

Love,
Kartini"

ASYIK was successfully organised by Kartini Suharto-Martin and friends. Thumbs up!!
I danced two Indonesian dances; Tari (means Dance in Bahasa) Batik from Solo and Tari Aceh. But could not manage to get any picture in Tari Aceh's costume. 

The (Tari Batik) dancers :


We had so much fun that night! And was so happy when Kartini's Mum announced the money they raised that night. It was approximately A$3,700.00.Such a nigh to remember! 


I hope Uncle Wintolo soul's lifted although he was hospitalised. Get well soon, Uncle!


Bisous.
LpW